Have you ever played in a league or tournament where:
You bat the entire roster?
There is free substitution?
The last out is used as the courtesy runner?
The time limit is anything other than 1:40 finish the inning?
They use less than five warm-up pitches between innings?
It's a forfeit for playing short-handed?
The home team was determined by anything other than a coin flip?
Uniforms had to perfectly match, including undershirts and sliders?
The pitcher could get a new ball anytime she asks for one?
These are all "by the book" rules for various sanctioning bodies. If "rules are rules" then maybe you should start boycotting any games that employ these exceptions. Or do you just want the rules that you like enforced and let the other ones slide?
Then why is there a rule book in the first place if the umpires/TD are not going to follow them? It isn't about the parents/players "boycotting" games that don't follow the rules, it is about the umpires/TD not following the rules that are there. Just like GD stated, a list of rules are sent out to the coaches of the tournament BEFORE it starts. The ones that I have been sent states that ASA rules will be followed and then list the modifications (game time limit, substitution rule, tie breakers, etc.)
If it doesn't state a modification of the rule they are using that is listed in the book, then that rule should be enforced? No? Again, nowhere have I seen IP's will not be called. Other posters here have stated that they were told by the UIC not to call IP. So why is that not listed in the rule modifications that are given to the coaches?
My guess? There are some umpires that don't like the IP rule, and they will NEVER call it. Many posters here have openly stated that they think the rule should be removed from the ASA rule book and that leaping should be allowed like in other countries. That is fine to have that opinion, but then change the rule. There are meetings held every year to cover rule changes and additions. Just attend the meeting and have that rule removed/modified if you don't like it. Until then, do your job correctly and call it.