ok, so here it is. Coaching var, i have a sr pitcher who has pitched at this level for 5 yrs. last yr started getting soreness in shoulder, the girl is a competitor can field ,hit ,do just about evrything. my problem is that i dont want to go into season with just one pitcher, not knowing how much of a load my sr can take. i have a fr. who throws really well, she also hits well. im sure she would be a plus to the team. HOWEVER, the mother doesnt want her to be a back up. i know i cant force her to vars. how do i convince mom that this would be a good thing or do i try to develop another pitcher and take my chances?