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It has been my experience, having had 2 teams blow up over the last 4 years, that you will absolutely screw up in some of your choices, because you're human and there isn't a concrete right or wrong answer. You must also remember that, as others have mentioned, running a team is a business. Coaches and parents will be on their best behavior while they are wooing you. Buyer beware. The softball world gets smaller and smaller, the older they get. If a hotshot team suddenly needs a pitcher, ask yourself why? If they're so great, why are they hustling midseason? A little recon goes a long way.I've gotten a lot of contacts from coaches this morning. I'm feeling pretty overwhelmed. I was afraid to quit the team without having a plan in place, because I didn't want her to have to not play for a month. Apparently that is not a problem. There are some really great teams who are interested in her and somehow I have to pick one. I'm scared of screwing it all up. Eek!
Your daughter is too young to have to stress much about finding a team. We have 2 rules about it that might help:
1. Never play on a team where coach's daughter is a pitcher, unless she's obviously a super stud and better than our dd.
2. Find a program - not just a team.
Keep in mind that your dd has many years ahead of her. When our dd's team blew, she was approached by some fantastic teams - but the next level program wasn't in place. So that told us that we'd be repeating the process all over again come August, as girls get romanced by the big programs and peel off in different directions. I don't know about your area, but around here there is some serious cherry-picking going on.
We have had so much more success in being part of a program that has a board, lots of coaching staff, excellent resources, and outlets for grievances. And the best part? Same unis, fan gear, bags, colors, etc. That stuff adds up!
Good luck! She will find a place, and it won't be perfect. And that's ok.
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