I will admit that if I had telekinetic powers, there is one time where I would have diverted the ball hit an ump. I wouldn't involved girls on my team in my evil deeds but I have met an ump that needed a bruise. I'm not saying I would've felt good about it, just saying in that situation, I know myself and I would've used my powers for evil if I had them.
I get what you're saying JJ, but why go looking for things to regret. If you're like me, you unintentionally do things you regret on a pretty consistent basis already.
No ump deserves this. If his strike zone was not to the pitcher's liking she has to adjust, just like everyone else. The ball four on this video was obviously pulled up 6 inches by the catcher. Based on how much movement there was by the catcher, I have to assume the pitch was low and a ball.
I probably shouldn't but I tell catchers "if you felt you had to move your glove that far to frame it, you know it wasn't a strike".
I think I'd tell my daughter to take it one step further: give the coach the ball, tell him/her you will not be a part of a team where the coach tells you to do that, tell the umpire what the coach told you to do, take all your personal gear and go home. Leave the field right then and there. Leave all the team stuff, because we aren't going to need it anymore. No way, no hell we'll be a part of anything like that.
And I will admit as an umpire that had I been able to direct foul balls toward certain coaches I would have done so