JJsqueeze
Dad, Husband....legend
Why is this a problem at all? let her struggle with it. If she is frustrated now, imagine how tough it will be for her when people with this mentality are working for her in 10 years? She may as well work through developing coping mechanisms now. The only problem I could see was if she internalized it and started trying to be less competitive to blend in, that would be a huge problem. Advice wise, I would just tell her that there are going to be so many people in life that don't care about winning, feel entitled, don't give things their best effort etc. In fact tell her that A LOT of people are like this so she can either get frustrated or accept this fact and try to find ways to bring them up to her level or at least accept that she can't do anything about it but prevent it from bringing her down.