And sometimes it takes an adult coach to answer, "Yes, really. That is all she has earned. And if she doesn't start giving more effort, it may be less next weekend."Sometimes it takes an adult advocate to say, ''We played four games today, and my daughter only played in one? Really?''
I always tell my families that I will answer any questions they have to the best of my ability and with complete honesty. I then tell them they need to be prepared for that honesty, or perhaps not ask questions they may not like the answers to.