What are you saying, that a parent shouldn't talk to you about anything about their DD? I don't want to run any team, but I do want the coach to hear my concerns about my DD, or are you like the majority of coaches (especially high school) who says "shut up, or your kid sits on the bench"?If you want to run the team so badly, why don't you coach? You're paying for the coach to coach. End. Period. Unless we're talking abusive behavior, it really doesn't matter if you're paying hundreds of thousands of dollars. You're paying for your DD to be coached by that coach. You're not paying for the right to tell the coach what to do.