Looking back, I believe I failed them as a HC because I didn't let them fail or feel the sting of losing over those many years. I am not sure I didn't help rob them of the true joy of competing. I don't think I prepared them to NOT be afraid of losing...
It seems to me there needs to be a balance - especially in rec ball. For a lot of rec ball kids, just being out on the field and having fun with friends IS the important thing. Those are happy memories that will stay with them forever, and that's not a bad thing for a lot of kids. Learning how to feel good about themselves - win or lose - can be a very important lesson. Most of all, I think it's about understanding the kids on your team and what drives them individually. Some respond to pressure. Some wilt and crawl into a hole.
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