- Jan 15, 2009
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I don't think it is the business of ANY parent how other girls' playing time is affected or not because of an absence. The head coach, fair or not, decides playing time. My dd makes every practice and some girls don't. However, I don't expect that she is going to get playing time ahead of another girl until her on-field performance improves, not just her attendance. Attendance at practice is the means for her to improve her skills. If the other players are consistently missing practices, it will show in their performance relative to my dd's. A good coach will recognize and reward that. If playing time was awarded solely on the basis of attendance, we would play some pretty sorry games. Parents have no business bringing something like this up with the coach, it is petty and it tears a team apart.
Depends on what was established at the beginning of the year. If you set up team rules and state that the consequence of A is B then you need to be consistant with that regardless of whether it's the best player or worst if you want to have a "team". Having parents ask you about the above implies that
A. You do have these rules and aren't following them and your starting to feel some blowback from that.
B. You haven't clearly defined those rules and the parents are looking for boundaries to be set
C. You have specifically set guidelines for this that have not been violated and the parents are trying to get you to rewrite team policy to be what they think it should be which is out of line for the parents and if they felt that strongly about it they should not allow their kids to play for you rather than try to dictate how you run the team
FYI, Our HS has a rule that if you miss a practice unexcused(or for an unacceptable reason) you miss the next event/game/meet. Firm but fair IMO.