- Feb 3, 2011
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If it were a legitimate hardship, we'd find a way to make it work. We have some options. There was another case just this summer where the other parents on a different team agreed to work the hours for a player parent who doesn't support their child's softball goals. The player left the team because the parents wouldn't bring them to practices or games. She was replaced and the incoming parent helped with those hours.
The parents use the player to communicate with the coach, and the coach has not always shown restraint in refusing to speak with the player about matters that should be handled by adults. Part of that is because of the relationship her daughter has with the other player, so it's hard for her to say "I'm not going to discuss this with you. If your mother is unable to come to practice because of work, have her call me in the morning".
As for spreading the cost out to the entire league, our league isn't large enough to permit us to do that. The fundraiser brings in a nice lump sum that would be hard to replace, while also giving us visibility to the public. It's a lot of work, but is worthwhile. This is the first year we've had strict accountability in the form of fee deposits, but no one else had a problem with it.
The parents use the player to communicate with the coach, and the coach has not always shown restraint in refusing to speak with the player about matters that should be handled by adults. Part of that is because of the relationship her daughter has with the other player, so it's hard for her to say "I'm not going to discuss this with you. If your mother is unable to come to practice because of work, have her call me in the morning".
As for spreading the cost out to the entire league, our league isn't large enough to permit us to do that. The fundraiser brings in a nice lump sum that would be hard to replace, while also giving us visibility to the public. It's a lot of work, but is worthwhile. This is the first year we've had strict accountability in the form of fee deposits, but no one else had a problem with it.