- Feb 3, 2011
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At what age is it generally appropriate to include a player in a conversation with the parents about why the player is no longer eligible to play?
For rec all-stars, parents are required to do 8 hours of service work during the summer or to pay $150, which covers the summer uniform and tournament fees. This year, we have a family who gave us a worthless deposit check and chose not to do any hours. I don't want to add too many extraneous details that might bias a reader, but there is a $120 debt from spring that's being carried over to 2014.
I see it as a cut-and-dry situation, but the parents disagree and have involved the child in the drama with the HC. The HC's daughter and the now-ineligible player are good friends.
This is a 16u team and the player is 15. The reason I asked the question is that my communication has been with the parents only via email, but the HC was told BY THE PLAYER that she's back on the team and would be at practice Monday. I'm our league's B program coordinator, which includes all-stars. I'm ok with being the bad guy here. But in general, is it ok to include a 15yo player in a conversation with the parents about personal responsibility?
For rec all-stars, parents are required to do 8 hours of service work during the summer or to pay $150, which covers the summer uniform and tournament fees. This year, we have a family who gave us a worthless deposit check and chose not to do any hours. I don't want to add too many extraneous details that might bias a reader, but there is a $120 debt from spring that's being carried over to 2014.
I see it as a cut-and-dry situation, but the parents disagree and have involved the child in the drama with the HC. The HC's daughter and the now-ineligible player are good friends.
This is a 16u team and the player is 15. The reason I asked the question is that my communication has been with the parents only via email, but the HC was told BY THE PLAYER that she's back on the team and would be at practice Monday. I'm our league's B program coordinator, which includes all-stars. I'm ok with being the bad guy here. But in general, is it ok to include a 15yo player in a conversation with the parents about personal responsibility?
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