Just leave

[Bullseye]

Take your complaining and leave. Stop being the agitator because you dont think the coach is fair then stick around throwing fits. The mother cries.
The father yells.
All in for cutting families like this.
Coach just do it!

 

[BT3100]

They'll just go down the street and another team will cash their check. When you see team jumpers it's a red ?
Sadly many times it's not the kid, it's the parents.

 

[3girls]

99% of the time it’s the parents...rarely the child. You can talk to kids and most will adjust their behavior. A bad parent, you can’t even talk to.

 

[uncdrew]

I encourage and sometimes suggest to coaches which players to cut.

Kidding, but I certainly support the coaches when they do. By the time the coach finally cuts a family, I was there weeks ago.

 

[BT3100]

Once you get to 18s everyone, players included, know who is a baller and who isn't.
Most parents that make it that far settle down. The kids are usually commited so that parental stress is gone. At that point the team and players have different goals. Maybe win a big championship or sharpen skills before college. Most drama occurs at 12s and 14s. I think a lot of it comes from parents who are starting to realize that their DD isn't gonna end up at UCLA.

 

[Rick M]

DD has never been on a team where someone was kicked off. Are we just lucky, or is that exceedingly rare?


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[Vertigo]

DD has never been on a team where someone was kicked off. Are we just lucky, or is that exceedingly rare?


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I‘ve never seen players who wanted to return let go until the end of this past summer. Girls were let go who missed a lot of practices (by choice) and others who failed to develop and change their ways after a couple of seasons. They now play for lower level teams.

 

[Eric F]

DD has never been on a team where someone was kicked off. Are we just lucky, or is that exceedingly rare?

I haven't seen someone get straight-out kicked off, but I've seen coaches make adjustments that helped them come to the conclusion that they should find another team. I may, or may not, have been involved in some of those situations.

 

[BT3100]

DD has never been on a team where someone was kicked off. Are we just lucky, or is that exceedingly rare?


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I've seen players get moved down after fall season. The fall season is a good indicator if the player can cut it for Summer.

 

[SMS90]

My DD was kicked off a team while recuperating an injury. Or it could also have been because one of the players found out she’s gay. Needless to say it worked out for the better and she lit them up the couple of times she played them before that team folded.