...Little did he know she really wasn't as good as he had seen her play...
I have seen this scenario played out many times in my area. Too many parents jump at TB opportunities without necessarily asking the right questions. Two stories I want to share. My rec leagues best 14U shortstop decided prior to the start of this spring season to join a TB team. Her raw skills were incredible but she needed refinement and needed more reps in the field. The TB team's home fields are over an hour away and the two a weeks primary focus is on building the team skills not on building individual skills rather. The girls are expected to practice on their own. Due to her home situation practicing on her own is not practical. As a result she is riding the bench where in rec ball she would have played virtually every inning. She desperately wanted to return to rec ball for all star season but missed the deadline and will have to stick it out on the TB team. I spoke with her dad and he wishes he had asked more about the team's practices and skill building and what the coach wanted in a starter before she joined.
The second story is about my own DD. Last fall the coach of a Gold level TB team inquired about my DD. DD wanted to play at first since this team was extremely competitive. Me, the coach and my DD sat down and asked a series of questions about what to expect. He was quite honest and told her that she was being brought on as insurance and likely would have had minimal pitching time. She ended up joining an A level team where she had the opportunity to compete for the #1 spot.