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I agree be firm, loud and confident with the calls. Don't let the coaches or the fans bully you( sounds like she got that part already figured out). Parents and coaches can be horrible people sometimes.
This is the slide deck I reviewed before doing my first game as plate umpire with a partner:
5a173c2a93488.pdf (softball.ca)
What I had my DD review before doing her game as base umpire:
Softball - Base Umpire Fundamentals - YouTube
Here is USA Softball's umpire page. There used to be 2 animinated DVDs on Umpire mechanics I had, but I think loaned my copies to the UIC about 5 years ago and never got them back :/. If you do some searching on youtube, you might find them somewere:
Umpires (teamusa.org)
In my experience, about 90pct of the time if the youth umpire quietly and calmly warns the coach they will toss them if they don't calm down, they will come to their senses and calm down.
I can't find the meme/story at the moment, but I saw one other day the gist is an parent comes up to someone heckling their kid asking them to stop, then the parent doing the heckling tells the parent they will stop heckling thier sone when he stops heckling his son. Parent is confused, they aren't heckling any players. The other parent points to the youth umpire.
Can't go wrong with the official umpire manual. They made it free and online to download a couple of years ago. They have tons of pictures on each situation and how to move. They also have hyperlinks to the animated models that show the field, runners, and umpires on their YouTube account.
Everything is in here but it requires solo learning and going through everything. She can get as much or little as she wants to in this manual
As an umpire of 19 years, never do any of the things you suggested.During the pre-game meeting, explain the strike zone to the coaches. That will cut down on 90% of the grousing.
Have her remind the coaches that she is 15 years old and that this is her second game as an umpire.
On close calls where the coaches get upset, she should consult with the field ump, even if she has no intention of reversing or reviewing the call - taking a pause to discuss can sometimes calm things down, makes the umpires look more professional, and helps achieve safety in numbers when both umpires agree.
Good luck!
As an umpire of 19 years, never do any of the things you suggested.