As a rule, I'm only allowed to get involved at my DD's request. They handle everything unless it starts to get overwhelming. And out of 12 years of softball, only once was I given permission to insert myself into a situation.
My older DD was an awesome player, an 875 batting average (summer rec not travel but she played TB as well), power hitter on the team, a vacuum cleaner in the infield, fast as he'll on the bases. We were proud because she worked her tail off. And she got cut her sophomore year because the JV coach didn't like her. Actually put my DD into a deep depression. I offered to raise some he'll with the school administration and DD asked me not to. I didn't. She won a city championship every year in high school (1 in softball and 3 in gymnastics). We supported her in gymnastics and life went on. She got the last laugh, that coach eventually was fired for being a terrible coach and DD was the only D-1 recruit in her senior class.
Right now with my younger DD, she did ask for my help because this coach made the situation far too overwhelming for DD. This situation is on-going and has calmed down after we met with the coach and the AD. But if DD didn't ask, I never would gotten involved.
As for parents, most that I have come across in our adventures are alright. There's been a few nut-jobs that should be given he wrong direction to the playing field. But I usually point them out and say to DD, "you know, I could act like that too.". And then my DD responds with the evil death glare. JK.
We aren't all bad...
My older DD was an awesome player, an 875 batting average (summer rec not travel but she played TB as well), power hitter on the team, a vacuum cleaner in the infield, fast as he'll on the bases. We were proud because she worked her tail off. And she got cut her sophomore year because the JV coach didn't like her. Actually put my DD into a deep depression. I offered to raise some he'll with the school administration and DD asked me not to. I didn't. She won a city championship every year in high school (1 in softball and 3 in gymnastics). We supported her in gymnastics and life went on. She got the last laugh, that coach eventually was fired for being a terrible coach and DD was the only D-1 recruit in her senior class.
Right now with my younger DD, she did ask for my help because this coach made the situation far too overwhelming for DD. This situation is on-going and has calmed down after we met with the coach and the AD. But if DD didn't ask, I never would gotten involved.
As for parents, most that I have come across in our adventures are alright. There's been a few nut-jobs that should be given he wrong direction to the playing field. But I usually point them out and say to DD, "you know, I could act like that too.". And then my DD responds with the evil death glare. JK.
We aren't all bad...