- Feb 3, 2011
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When the team was being organized, I did not ask parents what sort of demands they might have. At the 1st meeting, I laid out my policies and protocols, but while I wanted to know which players have private instructors, I never even thought to ask parents about positions or playing time. I also did not promise anyone anything until after the 1st practice, where I quickly identified our best 2 catcher prospects.If I read your OP correctly, it seems to me the only issue you have with her is that she doesn't throw as hard as the other pitchers? She throws about the same percentage of strikes? If not, please disregard the following.
If so, the fact is you haven't seen her pitch in a game yet this fall, so at this point any supposition on your part is based on assumption. Her mother was right: how do you know? Were I her I would have had a hard time keeping my composure if you told me the reason she wouldn't be pitching very much is because it is unsafe for her to do so.
You say it's a "competitive" rec league in the fall, so my guess is the other teams might have trouble hitting her if she is that much slower than average, especially if you bring her in after your fastest pitcher goes through the lineup. But you'll never know because it sounds like she will never have a chance.
I have seen the player pitch in an 8u, but I also saw all but 1 of the other girls and she was not up to their level at the time and the 1 I didn't get to see is our clear #2 right now and could become our #1. Until player hits a growth spurt, I think the only way for her to get up to their level is to really put in a lot of practice time. Because of the nature of our fall season and the number of players we have who want to pitch, Rowdy is correct in saying there won't be nearly enough innings to keep pitchers or their parents happy.
You're correct about the slow pitchers being able to have success against a lot of 10u lineups, especially when you can use them in a relief role. But it can also be a sticky wicket if we're running up against poor OR GOOD hitters who are content to wait on what amounts to soft toss.
I know I sound like a speed-obsessed jerk who isn't giving the kid a reasonable chance because she isn't as fast as the other girls, but that really isn't the case. EVERY player has a chance to earn starting time in the circle (or at other positions), but the #6 pitcher is unlikely to get more than a couple of innings all season on this team.