- Feb 3, 2011
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10u fall rec
We've barely begun practicing for fall and already a mother is upset with me regarding her DD whom she thinks is a pitching star. I like the player a lot (polite, attentive, etc), but we're having to do a lot of work just to help her develop an overhand throw. To her credit, she can get the ball across the plate, but her top pitch speed is about 20mph. 4 of our other pitchers are in the 28-32 range and then our fastest pitcher is usually 36-40.
During what should've been a polite conversation, the mother kept asking me 'How do you know?!' that her DD isn't going to be a star pitcher this fall. Mom has not been to any practices, nor does she sit on the bucket for her DD to practice at home, and she has a very skewed view of her DD's performance from spring rec ball. There are naturals out there who can do well in 8u without practicing, but that number shrinks a bit as they move up to 10u. Look at the players performing well in 10u and I'll bet you money that 90% of them are practicing regularly.
I conceded that, yes, it was possible that her DD might magically develop into a sensation overnight, but I did not want mom to think she would be getting a significant amount of innings during the season. As of right now, she would be 6th in line and we'll generally pitch only 3 girls per doubleheader, and perhaps 4 on tournament weekends.
I tried to explain that 10u fall rec is competitive rec play and not at all like spring rec. Even though playing time will be about equal, playing time at each position will have to be earned and a player isn't going to be put in a position where her safety might be at risk. For example, an 8u player with slow reflexes isn't going to be playing 3B on my team unless I've scouted the other team and know they don't have any big bats.
I want the player on my team to get her ready for 10u spring rec, but based on mom's expectations, the daughter may have a much better experience playing the competitive 8u this fall instead. When I offered that suggestion, however, mom totally flipped out on me.
This could potentially be a very interesting season, but fortunately for me, there do not appear to be any other problem parents in the mix.
We've barely begun practicing for fall and already a mother is upset with me regarding her DD whom she thinks is a pitching star. I like the player a lot (polite, attentive, etc), but we're having to do a lot of work just to help her develop an overhand throw. To her credit, she can get the ball across the plate, but her top pitch speed is about 20mph. 4 of our other pitchers are in the 28-32 range and then our fastest pitcher is usually 36-40.
During what should've been a polite conversation, the mother kept asking me 'How do you know?!' that her DD isn't going to be a star pitcher this fall. Mom has not been to any practices, nor does she sit on the bucket for her DD to practice at home, and she has a very skewed view of her DD's performance from spring rec ball. There are naturals out there who can do well in 8u without practicing, but that number shrinks a bit as they move up to 10u. Look at the players performing well in 10u and I'll bet you money that 90% of them are practicing regularly.
I conceded that, yes, it was possible that her DD might magically develop into a sensation overnight, but I did not want mom to think she would be getting a significant amount of innings during the season. As of right now, she would be 6th in line and we'll generally pitch only 3 girls per doubleheader, and perhaps 4 on tournament weekends.
I tried to explain that 10u fall rec is competitive rec play and not at all like spring rec. Even though playing time will be about equal, playing time at each position will have to be earned and a player isn't going to be put in a position where her safety might be at risk. For example, an 8u player with slow reflexes isn't going to be playing 3B on my team unless I've scouted the other team and know they don't have any big bats.
I want the player on my team to get her ready for 10u spring rec, but based on mom's expectations, the daughter may have a much better experience playing the competitive 8u this fall instead. When I offered that suggestion, however, mom totally flipped out on me.
This could potentially be a very interesting season, but fortunately for me, there do not appear to be any other problem parents in the mix.