That is our conclusion as well. Focus on grades in high school. Performance in travel ball. Play h.s. for the experience of doing it if it's a good fit.I really have never run into a college coach that cares all that much about how you performed in HS softball. If your school does have a team and you DON'T play they may ask why (and you better be able to answer that question) but that is about it.
They will care that you can academically qualify for the school.