Accept that DD isn't going to put in the work to be the player she could be in either softball or field hockey, and also accept that as a soon-to-be 14-year-old it is her choice what she wants to get out of playing.
It's amazing how we typically have wind or rain right before New Year's Day to clear the air and enable those postcard shots.Random New Years memory..... My dad used to refer to the shot of the sun setting on the San Gabriels behind the Rose Bowl as "The shot that launched a million U-Haul's"