- Aug 26, 2015
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DD has a game against her friend from last season and she really wants to do good. I teased her that if she lost, she's not welcome back in the house or at the very least....no dinner and DEFINITELY no desert! She worked her butt off today (and wants to again tomorrow before the game) to impress her friend because she was the best girl on their team last season in her eyes. So, it's a "changing of the guards" in DD's mind. I think it's "cute" that she is THIS competitive. As much as she is trying to make this about her friend, I'm trying to make it about having a blast displaying your hard work over the summer. Not sure it's kicking in, though. And I have a feeling it won't kick in tomorrow, either. Still, it's a treasure that I won't forget seeing her determination and smile. It's why I do it......
1)why I patrol DFP looking for any nugget I can find (and offering what little help I can, which to date isn't much lol)
2)why I try to never miss a practice
3)why I always push everything else aside when she wants me to "toss her a few" or "put in some work"
4)why I say nothing at the park when she does good or bad (DW says plenty for both of us and she needs a balancing act)
5)why I endured the summer heat as she wanted to put in serious work this summer to get better
When she frustrates me to no end, I remember 1 of these 5 things and it immediately reminds me that this is never going to be long enough so I better cherish EVEN the frustrations.
.....why do you/did you do it?
1)why I patrol DFP looking for any nugget I can find (and offering what little help I can, which to date isn't much lol)
2)why I try to never miss a practice
3)why I always push everything else aside when she wants me to "toss her a few" or "put in some work"
4)why I say nothing at the park when she does good or bad (DW says plenty for both of us and she needs a balancing act)
5)why I endured the summer heat as she wanted to put in serious work this summer to get better
When she frustrates me to no end, I remember 1 of these 5 things and it immediately reminds me that this is never going to be long enough so I better cherish EVEN the frustrations.
.....why do you/did you do it?