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Communication was a HUGE problem, you're right about that. Probably at the bottom of it all that was the biggest problem.
OK, so I am REALLY late to this thread and I only read the OP. However, that got me to thinking a little bit:I feel kind of sick but we had to do it. I'm going to miss all the girls and parents so much. But it was not the right place for our kiddo. The coach...well, we just did not mesh & he was not a good coach for her. Today we played a 3-game friendly and he picked up players, and sat his own players. Who picks up players for what is essentially a glorified scrimmage? Isn't the point of the scrimmage to get your own players practice? It's really been quite a nauseating experience watching him suck up to the parents of the players he is trying to woo. Kind of amusing, too, if I'm honest. He played 9. In scrimmages. He is obsessed with winning; I think it's an ego thing. When we joined the team it was all "player development" and "we'll lose a lot but it's ok because we'll develop our players." Lies, i tell ya. He thinks the parents all love him but I listen to them talk, and let's just say that while we were the first to walk away, it's unlikely we will be the last.
So anyway. The dilemma now is finding a new team. It's not so much finding a spot for her as picking the right spot. She's a kick butt pitcher and can play any position when she's not pitching. We've got several offers but we're gun shy right now. This fall/winter has been awful. It has kicked our kid's confidence in the butt and has made us pretty wary. Our plan right now is to pick up with some of these teams that want her and see how we like them. I am definitely afraid of jumping into anything too fast. Any advice on this??
OK, so I am REALLY late to this thread and I only read the OP. However, that got me to thinking a little bit:
You're leaving the team because he used pick up players that he is trying to woo. Now, you plan on picking up with teams trying to woo you, and you expect her to play when this happens.
Does anyone else see anything wrong with this picture?
I still find it ironic, however, that you feel it is OK for your daughter to pick up and deprive another girl of PT, regardless of the situation.
Much better to just go practice with the teams you're interested in and go watch their games. Both will tell you all you need to know.
All fine and good.
I just don't see anything that says "upgrade" about going to a team that can only muster seven girls for a tourney the first week of March. It sounds to me like more heartache waiting to happen.
They're very likely not going to be the one we go with. I feel the same way. Me dd's BFF is on the team which is why we're doing it, mostly. They'll have fun playing together again.
Both the other 2 just need 1, a pitcher/middle infielder, which is what mine is (she's really a utility infielder, can play anywhere but catcher, but her favorite is SS). They're also the 2 that will play the more competitive tournaments. Hopefully one will be a good fit. We shall see.