Like JJSqueeze says, it isn't that I object to folks taking their DD somewhere else when she turns out to be of #4 quality on an A-ball team. My objection comes when daddy takes her and starts a new "A" team just so his #4 talent DD can be a #1 pitcher. That is what causes A-ball tourneys to have 17-0 games, even on elimination day. That is no fun for anyone.You can't have it both ways. I have seen an insane number of posts here that say "if your DD isn't a #1 or #2, you need to find a new team because she won't get enough circle time." Then people complain there are too many teams started by parents who want to get their DDs circle time. It's the same with the clubs that are trying to recruit players for three teams at an age group instead of combining the girls they have - they probably have too many pitchers for fewer teams. (Or they have coaches with big egos who all want to run their own team.)
My guess is that there aren't enough players to fill teams for all the girls who want to pitch. Obviously some of these pitchers (maybe a lot, I don't know) probably aren't good enough to be a 1 or 2 at whatever level they are playing. At the same time, it's not fair to criticize parents for doing what you are saying they should do.
We have various levels of softball with the ideal being that there is a team for everyone. I like that, but so few want to take advantage of it. If more did, we'd have enough players to fill teams for all the girls who want to pitch without diluting the upper levels. We'd also have more competitive (or more fun, if you prefer), evenly-matched games at every level if people were willing to do so.
IMHO, elite players need and deserve an avenue to develop their skills just as much as C-level and rec players do. Same goes for every girl in between.
The issue lies with nobody wanting to say their DD is on a "B" or "C" team.
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