Depends on the tourney. Is this a showcase or a random Pumpkinator Fall event? What is the benefit for your DD? I look at things this way. Is it an investment or an expense? Investment -hopefully there is some type of return(benefit). Expense nothing in return. WIFM-What's In it For Me!
Is this a tryout for the team or does the coach need someone to fill a spot or an insurance policy in case someone gets hurt? i.e.: the 10th or 11th player?
How does my DD fit in for this weekend? Where will she play and how many innings are expected? What if that doesn't happen?