I think it was Sluggers who posted a while back on a comment by Bobby Knight that college basketball players don't hate losing like they used to. ... I remember Knight saying that, and I've not got it off my mind. That thread was mostly about whether his assertion was true. What I'm after here is whether that 'hate losing' attitude is necessary to be a champion or great competitor.
Do you want your players to hate to lose? Is that a good quality in an athlete?
How should a player feel after she or her team plays below their potential and loses a big game? How should she feel if she had a bad game individually? How should she feel if her team gets blown out 12-1?
I see two ends of the spectrum --
1 - Those who feel terrible about losing. Losing hurts. These athletes may be sad or angry, or even embarrassed if they perform poorly. They don't want to talk on the ride home. These feelings are what fuel their competitive nature.
2 - Those who don't dwell on the past. They leave it on the field. They move on. They analyze what went wrong and learn from it, and they are determined to get better, but they get over their team's losses or their own poor performances quickly. They're in a good mood in the car ride home, wondering what's for dinner.
Do you want your players to hate to lose? Is that a good quality in an athlete?
How should a player feel after she or her team plays below their potential and loses a big game? How should she feel if she had a bad game individually? How should she feel if her team gets blown out 12-1?
I see two ends of the spectrum --
1 - Those who feel terrible about losing. Losing hurts. These athletes may be sad or angry, or even embarrassed if they perform poorly. They don't want to talk on the ride home. These feelings are what fuel their competitive nature.
2 - Those who don't dwell on the past. They leave it on the field. They move on. They analyze what went wrong and learn from it, and they are determined to get better, but they get over their team's losses or their own poor performances quickly. They're in a good mood in the car ride home, wondering what's for dinner.