A visit generally consists of a your given by a coach or an upperclassman player, sometimes lunch, sometimes meeting more members of the team. Reality is it varies from visit to visit and school to school.OK. She reached out. What happens on a "visit"?
At DD’s school overnights generally happen on week nights in the fall. If it’s still during the season your DD might get to attend (but usually not participate in) a practice and then stay overnight with a freshman.
DD was able to go to a practice, have dinner with most of the team and then attend 2 classes the next morning.
Last year as a freshman she hosted 2 possible recruits overnight but they didn’t go to class with her because their intended major was different from hers.
She has only met one of the girls who went on overnights this fall because her class/work schedule hasn’t allowed for it.