As a coach, have I ever wanted to tell my pitcher to nail some kid who was being a showboating PIA? Yes. Have I ever told a pitcher to hit said showboating PIA? Never. Would I feel some level of satisfaction if my pitcher did that on her own? Probably (just being honest). Sportsmanship goes two ways. Give respect, and you will get respect. If you are showing up the other players on the team, expect that there might be a price to pay for it.