Currently struggling with all this. My daughter is an 09 (January). Majority of her friends are 08.
We struggle with the concept of playing her up to challenge her, and playing her in her age group where she's the oldest to build more confidence.
Currently playing up. That may change down the road, but I doubt it.
We have the same issue with my son (August 30 birthday). With school, we chose to hold him back, so he'll always be one of the oldest in his class. With some sports cut-offs (baseball and football) he'll be the absolute youngest until he reaches high-school.
We struggle with the concept of playing her up to challenge her, and playing her in her age group where she's the oldest to build more confidence.
Currently playing up. That may change down the road, but I doubt it.
We have the same issue with my son (August 30 birthday). With school, we chose to hold him back, so he'll always be one of the oldest in his class. With some sports cut-offs (baseball and football) he'll be the absolute youngest until he reaches high-school.