The problem she has most I think is lesving her coach. Coach knows we’re looking because she made it awkward awhile back by asking who was staying/leaving. I told her would finish out our commitment and then test the waters. I tend to overthink things and don’t want to be the crazy dad always jumping team to team. I also want dd’s hard work to payoff for her. Thanks.
Too late, every softball dad is a "Crazy Daddy".
No one will think the worse for you for moving at 12U. Your DD fulfilled her commitment--you didn't leave the team in a lurch.