^ That is great, Coogan's. I just thought it was important to point out that young boys cry, too.
Kids naturally don't care about winning/losing, failing or succeeding...They have short memories.
Kids naturally don't care about winning/losing, failing or succeeding. They are good learners, they like to try new ways of doing things. They have short memories.
So I state it again, they get the pressure, coddling, attitudes from their parents, teachers, tv, coaches, and adults.
Kids naturally don't care about winning/losing, failing or succeeding. They are good learners, they like to try new ways of doing things. They have short memories.
So I state it again, they get the pressure, coddling, attitudes from their parents, teachers, tv, coaches, and adults. I have been to tons of games, played myself, and watched my own kids. If you don't tolerate it, it goes away. I am not saying that you can't cry ever, but there should be little if none. And yes, boys are crying more than ever.
Perhaps the issue is the parents are often out on the field with the kids or standing right there at every practice. I am shocked that the parents at our seminars have just left the kids with us (and often do so at games), but perhaps that is why they don't cry.
Did someone correct her? Do the adults she sees act that way? Did someone say if you don't stop acting like that, you won't be playing anymore? Kids are mirrors of the adults and what the adults around them allow. Did she or other kids see how Tiger acts or some other athlete with anger issues? Does it result in some reward for the kid, like attention or not having to control themselves but still getting to play? You don't get tantrums, and crying is a tantrum.
That has nothing to do with being competitive, it has to do with the attitude about losing. Back in the day , there were like 100 kids around and you were lucky if anyone noticed. If you could not handle being beat at something by somebody, you would not survive long. Same as out in the world. So start teaching em.
I've been parenting for 26 years now ...so I have some clue as to what I'm doing on some days.
I've been parenting for 26 years now with three very different children, so I have some clue as to what I'm doing on some days.