Just to chime in and say that I definitely think parents get crazy when it comes to their children because of the fact they are living vicariously through them. They want them to do well so they can relish in the moments.
For clarity: FRUITY = CRAZY. CRAZY, as in "mad, insane, or erratic"
Is it:
(1) A general lack of understanding of sports.
Hey they've seen it on TV, they know!
(2) A lack of understanding softball specifically.
Parent drops off kid, sits in the car, no glove, no ball --have they ever even seen a softball game?
(3) The general decline in intelligence of Americans.
I think of this as general apathy to everything that doesn't concern them.
(4) A "sense of entitlement".
I see this everyday-- BIG pet peeve of mine!
(5) Unrealistic evaluation of their DD's talent
I love it when a parent is proud of their player, as long as it doesn't affect other players. Sit there and be proud, don't ask for more time or a better position at the cost of someone that is actually working harder.
(6) Something innate about the game (i.e., if a child plays softball, the parents' IQs are immediately lowered 25 points).
I thought everyone's IQ where lowered when they had kids?
Most households are now "child centered" versus what I grew up with," adult centered". With so much attention placed on the kids, the stakes are raised for their achievements. I'm old (51),so my experience as a child was either being dropped off or I walked to practices and games.When I got home, my mother didn't think to ask . My father was interested, but terribly so. Neither of my parents would have ever thought to ask a coach about playing time. If I were to complain about something being unfair, you guessed it, I'd hear , " Son, life isn't fair". Today's parents are so completely involved in their child's life, they don't know how to let their kids battle for themselves.