obbay
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Lot's of good responses here.
I would add to the "it's not just softball" discussion. A hockey parent was killed in an altercation during a youth hockey game in the next town over from me. A few years ago, an officer from our L.L. board of directors was suspended because her son got in a fight after a game, and she was seen not only cheering on the kid in the fight, but kicking the other kid when he was down (both boys were 12 or under). I am currently coaching my 10 Y.O. DD basketball team (rec league, 3rd and 4th grade) and a few weeks ago she was covering a girl who kept hitting her when no one was looking (even throwing elbows during timeouts), all the while being cheered on by mothers on the sidelines (I didn't see this, I found out after the game). I was watching another game and got to see the mothers doing it first hand (their team wound up losing both games).
On the other hand, I'm very proud of kids I see who are good kids, put up with the embarassment of their loudmouth parents, play with good sportsmanship and win or lose walk away from the field with their heads held high..
To me this all underscores the importance of quality coaching. Lead by example and show the kids how to take the high road.
I would add to the "it's not just softball" discussion. A hockey parent was killed in an altercation during a youth hockey game in the next town over from me. A few years ago, an officer from our L.L. board of directors was suspended because her son got in a fight after a game, and she was seen not only cheering on the kid in the fight, but kicking the other kid when he was down (both boys were 12 or under). I am currently coaching my 10 Y.O. DD basketball team (rec league, 3rd and 4th grade) and a few weeks ago she was covering a girl who kept hitting her when no one was looking (even throwing elbows during timeouts), all the while being cheered on by mothers on the sidelines (I didn't see this, I found out after the game). I was watching another game and got to see the mothers doing it first hand (their team wound up losing both games).
On the other hand, I'm very proud of kids I see who are good kids, put up with the embarassment of their loudmouth parents, play with good sportsmanship and win or lose walk away from the field with their heads held high..
To me this all underscores the importance of quality coaching. Lead by example and show the kids how to take the high road.