- Feb 3, 2011
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T-ball is about a group of young kids outside having a blast while playing some softball. The kids are going to be as bored as the coaches let them, and they're also going to have as much fun as the coaches let them.
Trying to "teach softball" to a 5 year old is like teaching long division to a 5 year old. Sure, some kids may "get it" at that age, but just like math, "getting it" at a young age will not make them better at it when they're older.
I don't disagree with any of that, but what I feel we've not done (speaking only about the local leagues I have observed in recent years) is to give the girls the best opportunity to enjoy themselves. I know that field availability for games can be a problem, so we'll be using the '2nd set' of fields for many t-ball/8u games this season and hope we'll *need* them for even more next season. We've been using both sets of fields for practices, and those slots are at a premium. I'm not sure what we're going to do if we do manage to get 4-5 additional teams next year.
But lack of space should not be the reason we dumb the game down. When we were in SoCal, we had so many teams that at least 1/3 of the t-ball games had to be played on grass. The only part the parents didn't like was that it was a slightly longer hike from the parking lot. The kids loved it and some of them would even try to slide when the grass was moist, even though sliding was not allowed.
What we want is for the girls to 'go get the ball and throw it to 1st' and we want the girl on 1st to make an effort to catch the ball. With these 12-girl infields, you've got a few who might go for the ball, but a whole lot who are happy to watch another person come get it. And I cannot tell you how many times the girl who ended up with the ball didn't have a clear throwing lane to 1st anyway.
As much as we want their parents to bring them back, kids are consumers, too, and we should give them a product that makes it worth their time to participate. Some girls want the uniform and a bat, but are more concerned with having access to the dirt out by 2nd base to play in. But other girls want to get the ball and throw it as hard as they can so that they can hear 'Go Sarah!' above all the other noise in the crowd.
It doesn't take much more effort at all to give the girls a better game and who knows, maybe some of the daisy-pickers will get engaged more sooner than you'd think if they look around and happen to hear those dads cheering Sarah and Suzie. That is not a must, no, but I wouldn't underestimate the value of those moments in shaping young lives, even if they never play another season of softball as long as they live.