Lot's of good info above. I have coached girls softball for 12 years at all levels. You will find out the worse coach is the male coach that coaches high school football and has no idea how to motivate a female. Most have a bunch of kids that end up crying on the bench. At 16U the teams start to thin out. This is what college coaches tell me , they do not want to see you play against weak teams. They want kids to play and handle tough teams. Why they dislike stats. My dd at 14 played on a 16U team , that is what they want to see. In Nationals a coach told me the worse thing she heard was I still have one more year left at 16U so I'm going to stay at 16U.