- Feb 3, 2011
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I'm posting this in an effort to gather more perspectives. A local adult male was recently arrested and charged with lewd and lascivious conduct involving a minor. He's a pretty well-known baseball coach. The town newspaper printed a small blurb based on limited information about the arrest. The investigation is rumored to have lasted quite some time. Some adults in the community don't want any public discussion about the allegations, while others argue that attempting to deal with this in whispers as a community can only further shame the alleged victim at a time when she needs to know that she did nothing wrong. I agree that it's a private matter, but because a crime occurred, the public has a right to know and to offer opinions.
I do not know the identity of the alleged victim, but do know the name of the accused. He's someone that I've seen before, but we have no relationship. One of his daughters is the same age as the alleged victim.
As long as the accused receives due process, my primary concern is the potential victim. I do not believe there is a 1-size-fits-most answer in regard to what a 14yo girl would rather receive from the public, if anything. So, the question I ask is what is better for her in such cases? I err on the side of not speculating or passing judgment on any parties until facts are made public, but as a small town, can we do unseen, long-term damage by not openly offering our support, even though we have to idea what she's going through privately?
I do not know the identity of the alleged victim, but do know the name of the accused. He's someone that I've seen before, but we have no relationship. One of his daughters is the same age as the alleged victim.
As long as the accused receives due process, my primary concern is the potential victim. I do not believe there is a 1-size-fits-most answer in regard to what a 14yo girl would rather receive from the public, if anything. So, the question I ask is what is better for her in such cases? I err on the side of not speculating or passing judgment on any parties until facts are made public, but as a small town, can we do unseen, long-term damage by not openly offering our support, even though we have to idea what she's going through privately?