I totally understand. Well explained. Thanks.
I have been telling my daughter to stop watching also, so I can get a rough idea. Good idea to tailor them individually.
I have our video as public, but I will start doing what you suggest to the schools that she really has her hopes on.
I have her season ending highlights public, but the week-to-week ones are private. My daughter has actually had a fair number of schools contact her after seeing her public videos.