There are a lot of fantastic coaches out there who never played fastpitch softball, so having never played the game doesn't necessarily mean anything. Further, there are some coaches out there who did play the game who aren't all that good at coaching.
Of course, being clueless and bullying are very serious problems. Seems to me that the questions should be, "Where is the next best team TB team? When would be the best time to move to that team?"
I agree 100% that you do not have to play the game to coach. But HC defers to coach bully and whoa... we played in a tourney this past weekend and neither one knew how to use a dp/flex. I understand maybe it's confusing for newbies but in no way should I have to call time because HC is about to make an illegal sub when we're up by 2 in the bottom of last inning. As a coach it's your responsibility to know the rules. ALL of the rules.
Before you are faced with the situation. You can't tell me that they know anything about the amount of practice and difficulty that goes into even just going with the pitch yet don't know you can't sub players willy nilly.