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you home school because of cattiness? or cattiness makes u happy u homeschool?This is why I homeschool. Teenage girls can be so catty when they get into groups.
you home school because of cattiness? or cattiness makes u happy u homeschool?This is why I homeschool. Teenage girls can be so catty when they get into groups.
My dd has had surprisingly good school ball experiences. Last year as a freshman, she made varsity on a team that hadn't had a winning season in many years. Four travel ball freshman came in and helped lead the team to a winning season, almost making the playoffs. The girls from all ages got along, had a ton of fun, and from my daughter's perspective, there wasn't a lot of pressure since the expectations were low. Every win was like winning the world series. We moved over the summer (same town, new school). She now plays for a school with a ton of talent. She made varsity, but it wasn't a given, and she is having a blast with the girls. While we were all worried that they wouldn't accept her, the opposite is true. She said that she is working harder because her starting spot isn't guaranteed. I'm so thankful that it is working out due to all of the "school ball" horror stories out there! (and yes, teenage girls can be SO catty!)
We homeschool for lots of reasons. The social element (cattiness, bullying, peer pressure to conform) is just one factor.you home school because of cattiness? or cattiness makes u happy u homeschool?
We homeschool for lots of reasons. The social element (cattiness, bullying, peer pressure to conform) is just one factor.
Might be time to update your resume!
Sadly, not all coaches are fair or reasonable. But I think most are.
HS coaches want to win, but they have to perform a balancing act between playing to win, team chemistry, and player personalities. Unlike TB a HS coach cannot recruit new players if someone quits.
Don't say "surprisingly good experiences." Its supposed to be a good experience. Its youth sports!! Too many kids and parents treat HS ball like its the final comparison against all the kids and parents that you've moved up throught the leagues with. High school sports is no more important than that 10U Saturday morning house league. Just enjoy it and tell your kids to battle through the drama.