Simple observations from your feedback
Coach doesnt change much.
Eventho coach could when there are batters performing better.
Coach has faster runners ahead of her.
She needs to break out of shy shell.
Sounds pretty much like a common situation...
How old is she on this adventure of softball?
What are her longer term goals?
she is 14u first year, team is a mix, HC has stated he wants to move team to 16u next fall. no real long term goals at moment, ie not certain about college. right now, focused on trying to be starting on V as a frosh ins spring 2022 (possible given what they have), and being ahead on depth chart of every other incoming frosh (primarly girls who stayed in town, formed a daddy ball team, she had been playing for travel teams from neighboring towns for several years, as there was nothing in town really, some interpersonal rivalries in play here). Other goal is to earn 3 V letters in frosh year (again, possible, but not likely, but that is what goals are for).
just frustrating. some of this was just need to get it out of my system. when DD grumbles a little bit (not much really), I try to play devils advocate a bit, holding back some of what I want to say.