I don't really see too many of the disrespectful kids you speak of. There are some, but all in all IME there are few and far between.
I also feel the managers & coaches have no control of how their players are raised at home, behave at home & outside of softball, and have no control of their off-field influences. But IMO they do have control of how they behave under their tutelage. When I do see a player acting or behaving disrespectfully I look at the coaching staff. If a player is punching fists at the end of the game I would be inclined to talk to the manager as I think he/she would like to be aware of it....and I would appreciate the same if our kids were doing the same.
I also feel the managers & coaches have no control of how their players are raised at home, behave at home & outside of softball, and have no control of their off-field influences. But IMO they do have control of how they behave under their tutelage. When I do see a player acting or behaving disrespectfully I look at the coaching staff. If a player is punching fists at the end of the game I would be inclined to talk to the manager as I think he/she would like to be aware of it....and I would appreciate the same if our kids were doing the same.