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Totally get what you are saying by looking at the team attrition rates and I agree. However, I was more referring to staying at the same school for four years and not leaving or transferring even if they left the softball team.Agree, but also more specifically look at the retention rates on the softball team. DD's team has had significant issues with retention. Only 2 of her 5 class members(including her) are still on the team after 2 years. We noted some of the attrition issues during the recruiting process but chalked it up to Covid and the 2 consecutive lost seasons in the Ivy league. Turns out there was more of a team culture issue than we realized. My DD who played for the same travel team with the same coach for 8 years strongly considered transferring after her freshman season.
IMHO, student-athletes need to extend beyond their comfort zone of sticking with their teammates all the time. While it is nice that the team is like an automatic “family,” there will be those toxic relationships as well. When teammates do everything together it gets old after a while. I think venturing out and joining other clubs, sororities, volunteer activities, etc, where they meet other people helps students to learn more about themselves as a “person” and not just as an “athlete” which so many identify with. This helps the athlete find another purpose in college if SB just doesn’t work out for some reason.
I do get it, though. For many athletes it is about playing their sport in college and if, for some reason, it is not happening as planned it is tough to stick out those for four years if their sport didn’t meet their expectations.