A starter class for parents would be a great idea.
We were in a bad spot on our dds 8u team . Dd was the oldest kid. Several were 7 and a few 6. We didn't have a problem with that, or the fact that there wasn't much skill. As the season drug on there was no improvement, and I mean no improvement. The coach was inexperienced and refused any help. She kept putting our team in "A" class tournaments, once after about 2 mos. w/out practice. She once missed practice so fer dd could go to a piano lesson. So it was a bad sit. All the parents got together and talked to org. together. We were the last ones to get on bored, because we didn't wanna hurt dd's chances in the future. Still the wife and I took the brunt of her blame. We were in a bad spot. Just couldn't see letting dd get marched out game after game to get slaughtered and the coach make no changes to improve. She kept saying, "We will be the team to beat next year" Our dd aged up,so we wouldn't be there anyway.
I would never approach a coach about playing time. That's not my place as a parent. We were worried about this with fall ball. There seem to be 4 female coaches. 2 of them have dds pitching, and that's who pitched the first couple practices.DD is playing up and is the youngest girl on team. Yesterday dd said something to 1 of them and kinda got brushed off. She was unrelenting and pestered them until one of the coaches took her to the side and let her try. You could tell by her reaction she was surprised. Afterwards she came up to us and asked if dd took lessons. She told us she looked really good and wants to use her to pitch.
I do not encourage dd to pester people. But we are proud that she spoke for herself and was unrelenting even after being brushed off.
We were in a bad spot on our dds 8u team . Dd was the oldest kid. Several were 7 and a few 6. We didn't have a problem with that, or the fact that there wasn't much skill. As the season drug on there was no improvement, and I mean no improvement. The coach was inexperienced and refused any help. She kept putting our team in "A" class tournaments, once after about 2 mos. w/out practice. She once missed practice so fer dd could go to a piano lesson. So it was a bad sit. All the parents got together and talked to org. together. We were the last ones to get on bored, because we didn't wanna hurt dd's chances in the future. Still the wife and I took the brunt of her blame. We were in a bad spot. Just couldn't see letting dd get marched out game after game to get slaughtered and the coach make no changes to improve. She kept saying, "We will be the team to beat next year" Our dd aged up,so we wouldn't be there anyway.
I would never approach a coach about playing time. That's not my place as a parent. We were worried about this with fall ball. There seem to be 4 female coaches. 2 of them have dds pitching, and that's who pitched the first couple practices.DD is playing up and is the youngest girl on team. Yesterday dd said something to 1 of them and kinda got brushed off. She was unrelenting and pestered them until one of the coaches took her to the side and let her try. You could tell by her reaction she was surprised. Afterwards she came up to us and asked if dd took lessons. She told us she looked really good and wants to use her to pitch.
I do not encourage dd to pester people. But we are proud that she spoke for herself and was unrelenting even after being brushed off.