Some kids do need to be medicated
Her grandmother told me that she got up late and her meds hadn't had time to kick in.
I have had athletes, that by 5PM, there meds have worn off.
You are a much more compasionate person that me, this is a sad state of affairs IMO.
Coaches need to coach, parents need to get their kids under control and stop enebaling, rewarding, and making excuses for bad behavior. My kids work and try hard, but the second they cry over a mistake or a lost game is the day they hang it up and they know it, my wife has said if they are 30 and not a productive member of society then its time to cry, not over a game.
Dont get me totally wrong, I do feel bad for these kids because the medicated ones usually are latch key or kids of dysfunctional or divorced families. I wish parents would stop dumping their troubled kids in the coaches laps.
I also blame pediatricians and therapists more so than I blame parents. They are turning the next generation into whiny drug addicts.