Need help...
Any suggestions for a daughter that is displaying temper tantrums after not hitting the ball? (throwing bat and or helmet in the dugout) This has not been a constant problem but has really reared it head over the last 3 weekends.
Coaches have noticed it. Pulled her out of the game once. Talked to her about it. We (wife and I) have talked to her about...(which has lead to some shouting and screaming on both her and my part, which is getting us both no where) I thought after the last incident she would be have worked at trying keeping it in ck.
Sunday, she pitched against a really good team. She got light up for the first time this year and didnt hit the ball and her temper reared its ugly head again. It is starting to effect her teammates and other parents noticing it. She is putting a lot of pressure on herself trying to succeed, she says she doesnt want to let her team down and she is feeling a lot of pressure from coaches to succeed. She has to realize that she controls her own actions and that it effects everyone. No excuses.
I just dont know where to go from here with it in trying to help her. I just don't want it to continue because she is going to get a bad rep. She generally has a pretty good attitude about softball and her teammates but her temper is getting the best of her. Any suggestions?
Any suggestions for a daughter that is displaying temper tantrums after not hitting the ball? (throwing bat and or helmet in the dugout) This has not been a constant problem but has really reared it head over the last 3 weekends.
Coaches have noticed it. Pulled her out of the game once. Talked to her about it. We (wife and I) have talked to her about...(which has lead to some shouting and screaming on both her and my part, which is getting us both no where) I thought after the last incident she would be have worked at trying keeping it in ck.
Sunday, she pitched against a really good team. She got light up for the first time this year and didnt hit the ball and her temper reared its ugly head again. It is starting to effect her teammates and other parents noticing it. She is putting a lot of pressure on herself trying to succeed, she says she doesnt want to let her team down and she is feeling a lot of pressure from coaches to succeed. She has to realize that she controls her own actions and that it effects everyone. No excuses.
I just dont know where to go from here with it in trying to help her. I just don't want it to continue because she is going to get a bad rep. She generally has a pretty good attitude about softball and her teammates but her temper is getting the best of her. Any suggestions?