Sounds like someone looking to play softball in college for all the wrong reasons.
Let Texas girls go to Texas schools
California girls belong at California Universities
Every girl from another state playing at those schools in New England is the school and it's coaches telling you that the local girls (your daughters) aren't good enough to represent their state's school.
Let that sink in when you go to the college games and see your schools roster is all imported talent to make up for crappy players that grew up locally.
I no longer can take the OP seriously. He doesn't watch "girl's sports" on TV. He doesn't think that any girl should leave their state to play college softball. He states that colleges who recruit out of state players are insulting local teams instead of accepting the typical college recruitment practices. He says that his dd is in 7th grade and yet, he is telling us how wrong we all are about college recruitment and the process. In no way is this a person who came onto this site to ask for help.