I get where you are coming from and in general I would probably do the same but, at what age do you think they should understand boundaries and respect other peoples property? Is 9 yrs old to young? Maybe by age 21 they should know not to steal or trespass? Should parents, peers, coaches or our government teach these lessons? Get off my lawn!! ;-)Me either but if the kid is 9 YO I am also going to cut them a little slack..