had a rec tournament in an adjacent town this weekend in which we had some problems with an umpire. The UIC in this organization has a track record of unprofessional behavior, I know the police had to be called regarding one incident a couple years back and he was fired from a Fall Ball league for arguing with coaches. He has an exceedingly short fuse. This gentleman's son was umping one of our games and apparently he has learned well from his father.
We had a couple of calls go against us that I went onto the field for explanations for. This young man offered little to any explanation and for the second call started yelling to me to leave the playing field immediately, on my way to the dugout he started screaming as he apparently thought my third base coach was me still on the field and never did admit his mistake. He blew his top, made a scene on the field and definitely over reacted.
All that aside, the thing that bothered us the most was the ump in question was hanging out, laughing, hobknobbing etc with the coaches from the other team which happened to be from the host organization. He might as well have been in the dugout with them between every inning. This to me looks bad at best.
I addressed it with the UIC (remember the ump in question's father) and he wouldn't even discuss it, saying things like "your umps do it too" and "I understand when you're losing"...I stopped him before he could finish. I don't think those 2 things have anything to do with it.
The worst thing was as we were walking away, the UIC a few steps in front of us, said something to his son as we passed by and he stepped into our path and screamed that he could talk to whoever he wanted to and it was a free country etc, etc. The ump's father stepped in between his son and my coach, and asked us to leave. I asked the UIC if he thought his son was acting in a correct manner as an ump and he said "you guys are antagonizing him"...we weren't.
We tried to leave several times and the UIC / his son would bark something every time we turned around to leave. I saw a board member of this organization standing nearby and tried to ask him for assistance and the UIC screamed at me that he was a board member and we should leave. As we turned to go, he again screamed at us and continued to do so the whole way out. Turns out the UIC is a Vice President of the organization.
Just wondered what everyone thinks about umps fraternizing with the home team while the game is going on. It really bothered some of my girls and I think I should have at least been allowed to log a complaint, except that the UIC was his dad and also a VP of the league...there has to be some kind of conflict of interest there somewhere.
We had a couple of calls go against us that I went onto the field for explanations for. This young man offered little to any explanation and for the second call started yelling to me to leave the playing field immediately, on my way to the dugout he started screaming as he apparently thought my third base coach was me still on the field and never did admit his mistake. He blew his top, made a scene on the field and definitely over reacted.
All that aside, the thing that bothered us the most was the ump in question was hanging out, laughing, hobknobbing etc with the coaches from the other team which happened to be from the host organization. He might as well have been in the dugout with them between every inning. This to me looks bad at best.
I addressed it with the UIC (remember the ump in question's father) and he wouldn't even discuss it, saying things like "your umps do it too" and "I understand when you're losing"...I stopped him before he could finish. I don't think those 2 things have anything to do with it.
The worst thing was as we were walking away, the UIC a few steps in front of us, said something to his son as we passed by and he stepped into our path and screamed that he could talk to whoever he wanted to and it was a free country etc, etc. The ump's father stepped in between his son and my coach, and asked us to leave. I asked the UIC if he thought his son was acting in a correct manner as an ump and he said "you guys are antagonizing him"...we weren't.
We tried to leave several times and the UIC / his son would bark something every time we turned around to leave. I saw a board member of this organization standing nearby and tried to ask him for assistance and the UIC screamed at me that he was a board member and we should leave. As we turned to go, he again screamed at us and continued to do so the whole way out. Turns out the UIC is a Vice President of the organization.
Just wondered what everyone thinks about umps fraternizing with the home team while the game is going on. It really bothered some of my girls and I think I should have at least been allowed to log a complaint, except that the UIC was his dad and also a VP of the league...there has to be some kind of conflict of interest there somewhere.