- Feb 3, 2011
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I know that people want to feel wanted. But how important is it for the typical sports parent to feel that their child athlete is wanted?
Players feeling aside (because most are going to go where their parents want them to go), some parents only want to be told, while others insist on being sold - and wooed. I don't want to speak out of turn, especially as recruiting for spring has begun in earnest here, but it seems that a lot of parents of pretty talented players don't want to merely be told "here are the basics about our program, here are some of the intangibles that we feel set us apart, and here are the specific positions we are looking to fill".
I don't think it's beyond the pale for a parent to ask whether the coach would expect their DD could step in and start right away. Asking for promises or at least an idea of of playing time is nothing new, but it's almost like some dads want to see a team built or re-built around their star center fielder and I just wanted to find out whether that's really where we are at now.
I did shake a lot of hands and kiss a lot of babies over the weekend, though.
Players feeling aside (because most are going to go where their parents want them to go), some parents only want to be told, while others insist on being sold - and wooed. I don't want to speak out of turn, especially as recruiting for spring has begun in earnest here, but it seems that a lot of parents of pretty talented players don't want to merely be told "here are the basics about our program, here are some of the intangibles that we feel set us apart, and here are the specific positions we are looking to fill".
I don't think it's beyond the pale for a parent to ask whether the coach would expect their DD could step in and start right away. Asking for promises or at least an idea of of playing time is nothing new, but it's almost like some dads want to see a team built or re-built around their star center fielder and I just wanted to find out whether that's really where we are at now.
I did shake a lot of hands and kiss a lot of babies over the weekend, though.