Greenmonsters
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DD currently plays 16U A travel ball. She started at 14U C at 13 years old, then played 14U A, then 16U B. It isn't really high level A travel ball, but they get their share of wins and do well enough to qualify for the national events. I expect that you would need to play travel ball to play at a NESCAC school, but maybe there are some walk-ons who didn't play TB. Someone else with more knowledge of the NESCAC schools, please comment.
First, RB's advice is very much on target. While there are viable college options for almost any SB player with a modicum of talent, it is important to honestly and carefully determine your academic and softball priorities before getting too far along in the process.
Putting SB aside, all the NESCAC schools are highly selective - 2000 SATs and a 3.7 GPA will put you in the lower quarter of a highly competitive applicant pool. Noting that the acceptance rates are low (+/- 10% at Williams/Amherst) and the small size of the schools (most 1000-2500 w/ Tufts approx. 5000? undergrad), it is extremely difficult to standout among the extremely talented applicant pool. SB can be one of those things that can improve your chances if your ability garners the attention and support of the SB coach.
Softball wise, Tufts obviously is the class of the NESCAC as the 2-time reigning D3 champ and has several players that could play for most D1s. While the strength of the other NESCAC schools varies, rest assured that most, if not all, players were dedicated, talented TB players or at least serious HS SB standouts.
My DD's academic/athletic objectives had her thinking D3 from the beginning and one of the NESCAC schools was her long-shot, dream school. This fall she will be a Jr. at a school in the next lower admissions tier, is very happy with her choice, and playing SB (honorable mention All Conference ) on a competitive, but sub-500 team (pitching needed!). She's played several games the past 2 years v. NESCAC schools and other D3 playoff teams (including 1 that made the final 8 in TX), as well as several games v. some D3s on the other end of the spectrum. My observations support RB's conclusion that, softball-wise, their are options available for any serious player, but that the hard part is finding the right fit based on a player's academic goals and softball abilities. The advice that served my DD well was to ID a short list of schools (5-15 or so) that met her academic and other key selection criteria, explore the SB options that each offered, and market herself/apply to her top choices (Note: injuries prevented the typical summer TB exposure opps for my DD).
My advice: Do your homework, have clear objectives, reach for the stars, make honest assessments, and enjoy the ride!