I've made just about every mistake a parent could make on this journey but one thing my wife and I did that we think is pretty cool and wanted to share is that we set up an email address for DD when she played her first softball game.
DD has no idea that it's exists even now that she's 13.
We send emails to this box on import occasions (first strike out, win, no hitter, bad loss etc,). We email the account when she tried out for teams and didn't make them. We send pics of her teams and coaches email addresses. We shared how proud we were that she tried her best. This tryout season she made both of her dream teams and she struggled to make the decesion on where to go.
It was hard for her to leave her friends but she told me that some choices are hard but with time they pay off. I felt that important to include in an email.
With so many ups and downs we've been tempted to share some of these emails but resisted the urge.
On her 18th birthday we plan to give her the address and password.
Thought it's a good idea and wanted to share.
DD has no idea that it's exists even now that she's 13.
We send emails to this box on import occasions (first strike out, win, no hitter, bad loss etc,). We email the account when she tried out for teams and didn't make them. We send pics of her teams and coaches email addresses. We shared how proud we were that she tried her best. This tryout season she made both of her dream teams and she struggled to make the decesion on where to go.
It was hard for her to leave her friends but she told me that some choices are hard but with time they pay off. I felt that important to include in an email.
With so many ups and downs we've been tempted to share some of these emails but resisted the urge.
On her 18th birthday we plan to give her the address and password.
Thought it's a good idea and wanted to share.