It's a unique mix of chess and dancing. Pitch calling can be proactive or reactive, follow or lead, or a little of both, but as long as it isn't predictable there are a number of ways to achieve the same result. At the higher levels, the pitches that get hammered are the mistakes i.e., those pitches that are poorly executed or located. When done well, you can get away with a poorly executed pitch in the right location, or a well executed pitch in the wrong location.
An excellant anology. Last tourny calling pitches for DD, young catcher, first inning DD located pitches on 2 batters fairly well. Two nice base hits with an out in between. Next batter called movement pitch that she hung out and the batter quickly put it over fence with authority. DD looked at me half grin of "crap I missed that one and dang she hit that a long way". Finished 75 minute timed game with a loss of 3-2. Examples of pitcher missing location etc. and of pitcher doing her part holding them scorless rest of game.